Thursday, December 26, 2013
One Month Old
Not a happy first month photo, but that's life sometimes! Wilder turned one month old on Christmas day!
This month, Wilder:
-Can now hold his head up for a little while unassisted
-Smiles, and not just if he has gas
-Sleeps 3.5-5 hours at a time at night
-Has outgrown newborn clothes and diapers already!!
Friday, December 6, 2013
The Wild Arrival of Wilder Dean
Our little turkey at 3 days old! |
Well, our
baby is FINALLY here! After what seemed like forever! Following is Wilder Dean’s
birth story—he’ll never live it down. :-)
Thursday,
11/21, evening
I started
having contractions immediately after a cold front blew in. I was already 41 weeks 1 day (8 days overdue) so anything was exciting. I went to bed thinking they’d go away--they weren't timeable so I wouldn't consider this actual early labor.
Friday,
11/22 morning
I and woke
up at 2:30 am Friday with regular contractions (I'd consider this early labor). After talking to our doula
Ashleigh, we postponed my midwife checkup already scheduled that morning till
after my prenatal chiro in the afternoon and tried to rest up as well as you
can with contractions every 6 min.
Alfred was a great doula. He was by my side the whole time I was at home! |
Friday
11/22 afternoon
My midwife Allison
checked me and I was at 1 cm and 60% effaced, which was a lot more than the
previous week, but we decided to go home and wait for more active labor. She
also stripped my membranes, which brought on stronger and quicker contractions
for a while, but they slowed down a little. Side note, we had Panera for dinner
and while my salad and soup were light, rushing a meal with contractions in a
restaurant was a bad idea. I don’t think I’ll be eating Panera anytime soon—I
felt so sick for hours. Labored all night – it was harder to rest this time,
waking up to more pain every 6 minutes.
Zach made a fire |
Ellie was also by my side the whole time |
Doula Alfred |
Saturday,
11/23, early morning
It was a
blessing to be home with Zach and pets while doing the things we learned about
natural childbirth--yoga, different positions, tub, etc. Two days is a long
time to be in early labor, but it was good to be at home in my comfort zone
during that time. Saturday morning things got a little hard, but we switched
from “relaxation” music to really great worship music and had a mini worship
session. Zach prayed over me and we really gave things to God once again. This
song – Oceans – will always remind me of my labor, because it was so
instrumental in getting me through labor.
early morning worship/prayer session |
Oceans
You call me out upon the waters
The great unknown where feet may fail
And there I find You in the mystery
In oceans deep
My faith will stand
I will call upon Your name
And keep my eyes above the waves
When oceans rise my soul will rest in your
embrace
For I am Yours and You are mine
Your grace abounds in deepest waters
Your sovereign hand
Will be my guide
Where feet may fail and fear surrounds me
You've never failed and you won't start now
So I will call upon Your name
And keep my eyes above the waves
When oceans rise
My soul will rest in your embrace
For I am Yours and You are mine
Spirit lead me where my trust is without borders
Let me walk upon the waters
Wherever You would call me
Take me deeper than my feet could ever wander
And my faith will be made stronger
In the presence of my Savior
I will call upon Your Name
Keep my eyes above the waves
My soul will rest in Your embrace
I am Yours and You are mine
Saturday,
11/23, afternoon
Zach,
Ashleigh and I went for me to get checked by Lindsay at the midwife center for
progress and we had progressed to 3 cm, 80% effaced. We decided to go home for
a few hours and come back to the hospital that evening to beat the huge winter
storm (for TX) coming the next morning.
Saturday,
11/23, evening
We arrived
at the hospital with Ashleigh at around 10 pm. Got checked in and settled. The
midwife rooms at Harris are awesome, as are the staff. We started with all the labor
positions and positions in the tub that made my contractions the most frequent
and intense. My back started spasming, something I've never had problems with,
but it got progressively worse from then on.
Sunday,
11/24, early morning
Candis the
midwife checked me at 1:15 am and I was only at 3 cm, 90% effaced. I also got
some fluids via IV for a short while. My back pain was really messing with
settling into contractions mentally. We walked the halls, ventured to the
cafeteria (SO hard!) tried biofreeze on my back, I rode the yoga ball
(nicknamed Yoshi) and tried all kinds of yoga poses—you name it--and kept
laboring. Ashleigh was a big help, giving suggestions of things to try, putting
essential oil-soaked washcloths on my forehead, hot packs on my back, making me
eat, etc.
Sunday 11/24,
midmorning
After
Candis checked me at 10 am where I was 4 cm—100% effaced and stretching to 6
cm, we talked with Candis and decided to break my water to hopefully get things
kicked up. I got some more fluids as well. I rested a little bit. All of that
helped and I had new energy for a little while, tried new positions and did the
most painful/productive ones from earlier on, but my contractions started petering
out--extremely frustrating. And the ones I had, I could not handle anymore
combined with constant back pain and having had them for 3 days straight.
Sunday
11/24, afternoon
After only
dilating to 5 cm by 3:30 pm, having tried a breast pump, and several other
methods, and being exhausted mentally and physically, we talked about the need
for pitocin to make my contractions return.
Sunday 11/24,
evening
Since I’d
reached my pain threshold, I decided to also get an epidural at around 7 pm
before they started pitocin. I was able to rest for 3 hours. By 11:15 I was 8
cm and 0 station.
long long few days. About to be go time! |
Monday,
11/25, early morning
By 2:15 am
I was 9.5 cm. I was finally ready to push around 3:45. The epidural had worn
off enough to where I could be on multiple positions—another thing I had hoped
for out of the whole birth experience. I pushed from 3:45 to 6 am-- in part
because my baby had his hand stuck by his head! Zach held my hand and
encouraged me the whole time, and Ashleigh made me drink water and gave me
chapstick between contractions (SO important). Pushing is the hardest thing
I've ever done in my life. Wilder Dean made his debut at 6:08 am and laid him
right on my chest. In that moment, the whole 75-hour ordeal was worth it!
Wilder weighed 7 lb. 15 oz and was 20 inches long.
I know many of you were aware that I wanted a natural birth—and a water birth if possible. Once pitocin and the epidural were on the table, I knew that was no longer an option, but I wasn't devastated or anything. What I had wanted was to feel (with Zach) like I was an active participant of decisions for the birth, and every step of the way we made our own choices after weighing options. “Natural” and waterbirth were secondary. I did every natural thing I wanted to do and spent a LOT of time in tubs. :-) So I don’t feel disappointed at all. I'm grateful that Wilder and I stayed healthy throughout the whole extended pregnancy and extended labor. With the next baby(yes I said it!) I honestly don't think I would do it any differently.
I know many of you were aware that I wanted a natural birth—and a water birth if possible. Once pitocin and the epidural were on the table, I knew that was no longer an option, but I wasn't devastated or anything. What I had wanted was to feel (with Zach) like I was an active participant of decisions for the birth, and every step of the way we made our own choices after weighing options. “Natural” and waterbirth were secondary. I did every natural thing I wanted to do and spent a LOT of time in tubs. :-) So I don’t feel disappointed at all. I'm grateful that Wilder and I stayed healthy throughout the whole extended pregnancy and extended labor. With the next baby(yes I said it!) I honestly don't think I would do it any differently.
Looking
back, I’m really happy with the whole experience. Zach, our doula, midwives and
nurses were AMAZING.
Here are some photos--I was pretty beat up post partum for a few days, so I'm not posting any photos of me from those first two days. Sorry--you're not missing anything!
Love that daddy Zach got skin to skin right after birth too! |
Super Dad |
First diaper change! |
Little pumpkin his first night in the world |
Loves his daddy |
Welcome home party! |
lights are fascinating |
Fine looking Boatwright men |
Hanging out |
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